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Thoughtful Gifts for Seniors

You need a gift for someone who is old — otherwise known as a senior citizen.  You are scratching your head.  What do you give that they would like and use?  What don’t they have already?  They’ve been around for a long time and have accumulated a lot of stuff along the way.

Wonder no longer!  At 82 years young, I’m one of those “old people.”  And I have lots of friends who are also called Seniors.  And, since I’m known as The Gift Detective, I’m here to help you choose the best gift for that older person in your life.

Understanding the Needs of Seniors

Just like the younger generations, every senior is different with differing needs, preferences, likes and dislikes.  Here are some of the needs that you should consider.

Health Concerns

Sugar Free Gift Basket
A sugar-free gift basket is a gift that most seniors would appreciate even if they are not diabetic

Some of us still run every day while others are in a wheelchair.  The health and mobility of the senior should be considered.   For example, if the senior has limited mobility, a gift that involves physical activity may not be the best choice. Instead, consider a gift that can be enjoyed from the comfort of their home, such as a cozy blanket or a puzzle book.

A raised gardening box can be a great gift for seniors who love to garden but have difficulty bending over. 

If you are thinking food, the health of the senior is a consideration.  Most of us love cookies, chocolates and other sweets in moderation but there are others who may be diabetic or pre-diabetic.  Unless you are sure that they would love a box of chocolates or cookies, a safe choice is a healthy gift basket.

Communication

Not all of us seniors are up-to-date or familiar with the latest technology so may prefer written communication or a phone call instead of a text message or email.  This is another way that we, as seniors, are different.  For example, I operate an Internet business and have been using computers since the early days while I have friends who don’t even have an email address.   The same is true of phone systems.  Many of us hang onto our land lines and, if we have a cell phone, it is just a flip phone for emergencies.  

As we get older, we are more likely to have problems hearing and seeing as well.  If they have vision problems, there are apps, that they may be totally unaware of, that can read text on their device to them.  Add the app to their phone or computer and show them how to use it.  Many tablets and smartphones also have large screens and adjustable font sizes, making them easier to use for seniors with vision impairments.

If your loved one is not comfortable with technology, consider a more traditional option like a phone with large buttons or a simple-to-use camera. These can still allow seniors to stay in touch with loved ones, without the added complexity of a smartphone or tablet.

If they have trouble hearing on the phone, there is an attachment available that will print out whatever is being said by both parties on the phone so that they can read it.

Overall, there are many thoughtful gifts that can help seniors stay connected with loved ones. Consider your loved one’s individual needs and preferences when choosing a gift, and don’t be afraid to ask for help or advice if you need it.

Age and Personal Interests

Consider the age and interests of the senior you are buying for. A gift that is suitable for a 70-year-old may not be appropriate for an 80-year-old.

Similarly, a gift that is perfect for a golf enthusiast may not be appreciated by someone who prefers gardening.

Take the time to understand the recipient’s interests and hobbies, and choose a gift that aligns with them.  Just like anyone else, seniors have their own unique interests and hobbies. Consider what the recipient enjoys doing in their free time and choose a gift that aligns with those interests. For example, if they love to read, consider getting them a subscription to a book club or a magazine.

Sentimental Value

Grandma mug
This mug would be a delight to the Grandma when she drinks her coffee or tea every morning.

Many seniors cherish gifts that have sentimental value.

Consider choosing a gift that has a personal touch, such as a photo album filled with memories or a customized piece of jewelry.

These gifts can be especially meaningful and show the recipient how much you care.  Even a mug imprinted with a sentimental message will put a smile on their face.

My granddaughter gave me a Mother’s Day gift in 2023 that had a photo of me and my great-grandson on one side and my husband and the great-grandson on the other side.  Well, my husband died in November and every morning when I enjoy my cup of November, this mug is a beautiful reminder of him.  

Practicality

Seniors often appreciate practical gifts that can help make their daily lives easier. Consider a gift that can help with daily tasks, such as a jar opener or a magnifying glass.

Alternatively, consider a gift that can help them stay connected with loved ones, such as a tablet or a smartphone.  Be aware, however, that if they are unfamiliar with this type of technology, you may have to teach them how to use it.

Comfortable clothing is always a great practical gift for seniors. Look for clothing that is easy to put on and take off, such as elastic waistbands and Velcro closures. 

As we get older, it sometimes becomes more difficult to bend over so a pair of shoes that they can just slip their feet into will be appreciated.

Another practical gift to consider is a video doorbell or smart door lock to help keep them safe and secure.  You can also look for devices that help prevent falls, such as grab bars and non-slip mats.

If your loved one has trouble cooking or getting to the grocery store, a meal delivery service can be a practical and thoughtful gift. Look for services that offer healthy, nutritious meals that are easy to prepare and customize to your loved one’s dietary needs.  Even though your favorite senior may have loved cooking for a family or even for themselves and a spouse, most seniors who live alone don’t really enjoy cooking just for themselves.

Overall, practical gifts can be a great way to show your love and support for the seniors in your life. By considering their specific needs and preferences, you can find a gift that is both thoughtful and practical.

Create Memories with a Wonderful Experience

The most precious gift of all is offering your time.

Many older adults find experiences  more appealing than material things. For instance, you could spend some time together at a local spa enjoying a luxurious a facial treatment, go out and have a special meal or visit a museum or park.

An experience is also a wonderful way for you to bond and make lasting memories. People who have more frequent social interactions live longer, healthier lives and experience less stress, depression and feelings of isolation.

We’ve lived through events and times that those of you who are younger have only heard about. Spending time with your favorite senior and encouraging them to tell you stories from their past will be something that you will appreciate when they are no longer available to share with you.

For example, I lived in Washington DC and worked for the Census Bureau when the computer was large enough to fill a room while we used manual typewriters.  It was also a time when I was able to stand on the Capital lawn and watch JFK being inaugurated.   It was easy to get close enough to see and hear as crowds were not as big back then.   Just a year later, I had dinner with Eleanor Roosevelt when she was a speaker at my husband’s college.  

These are just a couple of stories that I can tell my kids and grandkids.  I bet your favorite senior has many more.  They will enjoy telling you what it was like to live when televisions were black and white and Roy Rogers was king of the cowboys and land lines were the only telephones available.
Some of us can even tell you how we used a bucket to get water from a well or how the Sears Roebuck catalog was the preferred toilet paper in the outhouse.

Take the time to sit down, ask them, and listen.  You won’t regret it.

 

 

 

 

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